Date number one
Before I go into the date last night I want to mention a blog I read from an old friend. We haven't talked in over 11 years, and I probably broke his heart, but every now and then I check out his site and blog to see how he's doing. First he's an amazing photographer and second his entry for Saturday, well I never knew he could write so well also. I don't have regrets in life because there is no point dwelling on what you can't change. I do wish that I could get to know him better now though. I've been following his postings now for quite sometime and I don't know what it is about him. Maybe the fact that he's 100% unattainable, I don't know, but I keep going back for more.
Anyway now about the date. Ok, so it may have been off to a rocky start, but that was all my fault. First I pushed back the time to 6:30 and then I was a good 5 minutes late. I'm not usually so inconsiderate. Actually I'm early to just about everything, unfortunately it was just one of thoose days. The chit chat went as well as could be expected for first date. He impressed me on numerous points. He's a firm believer in communication, which so am I, but have never gotten in a relationship. He also knows that relationships aren't fairy tales and that sometimes they need a little work. We are on par with musical taste and of coarse both love hockey. 4 hours later there was the kiss goodnight. I understand that the first can be awkward, but truth be told I wasn't impressed. Then there was major stike against him. When I got home I had a text say "by the way your welcome for the drinks." First I said thanks before we left the restaurant, he claims that I didn't but I know I did. I always do and I'm NOT that big of a bitch. Second I really didn't like the tone that came across in the text. If he was upset about it then say it like that, not the comment I got. There are soooooooo many better ways to handle that kind of situation. I like him, don't get me wrong; but with everything we have in common, I can't find that chemistry. I am going to do a second date just to be sure. First ones are often tense because we're trying to hard. Hopefully the second will give me a better idea. Right now I'm walking away with the, yeah I like him. He's a good guy, but there is something missing. Lightening, thunder, electricity.
Anyway now about the date. Ok, so it may have been off to a rocky start, but that was all my fault. First I pushed back the time to 6:30 and then I was a good 5 minutes late. I'm not usually so inconsiderate. Actually I'm early to just about everything, unfortunately it was just one of thoose days. The chit chat went as well as could be expected for first date. He impressed me on numerous points. He's a firm believer in communication, which so am I, but have never gotten in a relationship. He also knows that relationships aren't fairy tales and that sometimes they need a little work. We are on par with musical taste and of coarse both love hockey. 4 hours later there was the kiss goodnight. I understand that the first can be awkward, but truth be told I wasn't impressed. Then there was major stike against him. When I got home I had a text say "by the way your welcome for the drinks." First I said thanks before we left the restaurant, he claims that I didn't but I know I did. I always do and I'm NOT that big of a bitch. Second I really didn't like the tone that came across in the text. If he was upset about it then say it like that, not the comment I got. There are soooooooo many better ways to handle that kind of situation. I like him, don't get me wrong; but with everything we have in common, I can't find that chemistry. I am going to do a second date just to be sure. First ones are often tense because we're trying to hard. Hopefully the second will give me a better idea. Right now I'm walking away with the, yeah I like him. He's a good guy, but there is something missing. Lightening, thunder, electricity.
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