There's No Road Coming Back This Way...

THIS is my letter to the world, That never wrote to me,— The simple news that Nature told, With tender majesty. Her message is committed To hands I cannot see; For love of her, sweet countrymen, Judge tenderly of me! Emily Dickinson

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Just a 30 something,divorced, disillusioned woman trying to find humanity in the big city.

Saturday, March 25, 2006

Never say Never

Just when you think things can't get any worse. So Dr is selling the practice and I'm confused about what to do job wise, right? Not anymore, my last paycheck bounced. I adore Dr. I 've been doing optics for about 14 years now and never enjoyed a Dr as much as I do this one. I knew things weren't great around here also. Here's the kicker though, I think he knew and just didn't say anything to me. OUCH! Any sense of obligation I had at this point has gone out the window. If he was trying to make it easier for me to go, it worked.
On to a different
subject. There's this guy on match that I REALLY want to meet. I finally have a better pic to put up as my primary too. Now the question is what do I say. He is really hot and that only means that a lot of other girls are gonna be saying hi also. I don't want to wink. I hate the winks. I want give him something to answer back to. I have to stand out though. What the hell do I say? F**k!
I think this whole online dating scene makes me feel like a piece of meat at the butchers. The photo is the first thing they see. If they don't like that then there's no reason to even read the profile. If you get to the profile then you have to be different from the millions of others online. They have you behind a window all lined up "yes, no, no, no, maybe, no, yes." AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They have so little to go on. What they see on a profile is just a small window into who we are. Yet you have be jumping up and down screaming, PICK ME, PICK ME! Give me a chance.
Do you guys feel the same? If so I'm sorry, because this truely sucks.

1 Comments:

Blogger The Hopeless Romantic said...

Do you guys feel the same?

Yes, but the picture is not always the major "selling point" and the personality is far more important (for me at least).

I use to dismiss "attractive" people because I thought they'd be inundated with messages and there would be no point in bothering. However, my new philosophy is "nothing ventured, nothing gained". It can only go one of two ways, so just be yourself and go for it!!

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