Ouch

This online dating thing really is a harsh blow to an ego. I don't have much of one anyway, but this really hurts. I can't say that I don't turn down guys online. I do. However, I try to at least answer the emails and reply to even the winks that I get. I sent an email to the guy that I want to meet and he checked out my profile, but no response. I'm trying to blow it off. His loss, right? Still. I don't know. I know that I'm just suppossed to be myself, and they don't like it then that's their problem. I know, I know. I've heard it before and even said it myself. Obviously though, it's not good enough.
I know, I know. Grow a pair and get over it. Right. Dating in general is becoming very discouraging. They say that it comes along when your not looking for it. So am I ruining my chances by being on match? I have 3 months left with match and then I'm done with whole online scene. I'll have the been there, done that t-shirt. In 3 months we'll see if I'll be burning it or not. So far it's not looking good for the poor T.