The chemistry of it all

On the Today Show this morning I caught a segment about how much of love is a chemical reaction. The expert they had stated that 1 out of 10 is love at first sight. However it takes 3 dates to know if there is anything substantial there. Of coarse the standard American has sex on the 3rd date. Astrologists will tell you that you need to wait 40 days before having sex to avoid bad karma in a relationship. Everyone will tell you that any relationship takes work. The two main keys in any relationship are honesty and open communication.
Here's my opinion (ready or not). I believe in love at first sight. I also believe in taking a deeper look. I believe in fate, destiny, karma, and free will. Fate and destiny can only do so much. They give us the opportunity, but being human we don't always follow the yellow brick road. We are sure to make our share of mistakes. I don't believe that there is only one person we are meant to be with. That would mean that if we don't follow the path we're meant to then we will never find them and end up dying alone. We're too human to have such limitations put on us. However, I do believe that there is someone for everyone. Just many someones. I also believe that it comes when you're least expecting it. Let me just say, duh, of coarse it takes work. It shouldn't be hard though.
I want the chemical reaction. I want the smile that won't go away. I want it turn into stability and a deep feeling of love neverending. That smile while appear every time I think of them. My face will light up everytime they walk in the door. When I have something that I want to share, they will be the first person I think of. None of this will be one sided either. My best friend and my lover. Someone to share the good, bad, and the ugly. Something true and pure.
When the time is right love will find me. I'm not shutting any doors. I'm also not obsessing anymore. I'm ready for whatever comes my way. Hit me with your best shot.