OMG!

So BR and I are at kind of an impass right now. We had a huge fight last night and it's not over yet. It all started with my stand on gay rights. I'm a firm believer that they are people too and they have just as much right to everything that I do. He is my polar opposite on this. So much so that he says it's one of his breaking points. In a relationship you have things that you can over look and deal with. He says this is not one of those for him. For him it could very well mean the end of us. I learned something last night that makes me understand where he's coming from a bit more, but I'm not changing my mind. I think it's complete and utter bullshit that I'm willing accept his stand on this, but he refuses to accept it as part of who I am. When I get pissed my mouth goes off. Last night was no exception. When he said that needed to think whether or not he could deal with this as a part of me, oh boy. I told him that if he was willing to give up on us over this then to go ahead and go. The man I am going to be with will love me completely for who I am, just as I do them. Remeber how in arguments you say things that you can't take back. I don't even think he wants to take these back. First he said that us girls rely on men. Boy does he have a lot to learn. We don't need you around for anything. It's a want, not a necessity. I can take care of myself. I enjoy having him there. I do love him very much and really like sharing life with him. I'm not going to change who I am, and if he can't accept that then we really are at an impass.Well then he mentioned how gullible women are. If he thinks that I'm stupid enough to buy all that sweet talk and don't know what he's after; he's gullible. Naive yes, gullible or stupid, no. I got absolutely no sleep last night. The only thing I have right now is that I stood my ground. I could continue to rant right now, but I'd just be repeating myself. So for now I'm off. Pissed off, but off nonetheless.