How to tell if she's into you

I promised a very good friend of mine that I'd write this over a week ago. Things come up, I've been sick, you know shit happens. Here it is though.

I have to laugh at you guys most of the time because you haven't a clue. BR and I went and played pool Tuesday night and there was this one girl that was drunk. You should have seen the attention she got. Granted she was also very good looking, but she wasn't going home with one of the guys that was with her. No offense but she was way out of their league. All she wanted that night was to get drunk with some friends that she could depend on getting her home. Here's how you know... First off those guys never had her complete attention. When we want something there is nothing that will distract us. You get eye contact with a smile. If it happens more than once, for crying out loud walk over and say hi. Please no cheesy lines, just be yourself. Next is the body language. If we move closer then so should you. You should notice that we're not looking around the room (for something better usually). We will be smiling a lot at this point. Probably touching your arm, back, or leg. This other girl from Tuesday was holding one guys hand, but she was sitting as far away from him as she possibly could. It wasn't much of a hand hold because their fingers were barely holding together. It's all very simple really.

The long and the short of it comes down to paying attention. Most of us aren't gonna run over and jump in your lap. The art of flirting is a lot of fun when you have someone to play with. Be confidant, we still like the guy to make the first move. If you see a girl you like then just watch her for a minute. Be sure to pick up on more than what she looks like. Notice the group she's with, how many times has she looked your way, what is she drinking, who is she watching, is she bored, or having fun? With my exhusband it took his friend telling him "Dude, I think she likes you". We aren't that hard to understand. The signs are right in front of you most of the time. All you have to do is take the minute to step back and see them. Happy hunting! :)