Spectacular, huh?

Time is running out with match. I've got about 2 months left to see if it works. I'm still trying to attract the kind of guy that I'd date. My new pic and profile have made the hits come to a stand still. Now the guys are looking but that's were it ends. A told me last night that she hates the new pic, so I put the old one back in primary view. She also told me that there's nothing spectacular about my profile. She says I need something to stand out from the others. I agree, but what?
There's really nothing spectacular about me. I'm an ordinary person, with an ordinary job, and an ordinary (pretty boring) life. I don't even stand out in a crowd. I don't make a lot of noise or rock the boat. I'm not exactly a wallflower. I talk and interact with people just fine. I don't enjoy being the center of attention. In school everyone would make a joke and tell me that I talk too much. When I get in a big group I do get quiet. That's because I people watch.
I thought my profile was cute. I made a few jokes. She's right though, it's just like all the others. I don't know what to do.