Onward and upward

Every now and then he suprises me, I mean really knocks me off my feet. I had written earlier about how he never talks to me when things go wrong. Last week for us was rough. We hit more than a couple road blocks. Me being me, I sat him down and told him exactly how it made me feel and what I needed to move forward. Last night he opened up to me. He told me how he felt about me and where he wants us to be. He said he is the luckiest guy alive. Why, you ask? Not because he's with me, but because he is with the person he loves (that just happens to be me). The answer couldn't have been better. I have also said that I'm not perfect and don't like being put on that pedestal. When I asked why me because I can be a real B***H. His reply was that everybody can. He was smart enough not to argue it with me. He told me that I am perfect for him. That he loves me unconditionally and wouldn't change a thing. Those words mean everything to me. For me, when you love someone for who they are, then you can't change anything about them. It doesn't mean you like it all. It means that you are aware that even the things that annoy the hell out you make that person who they are. If you change that, then you are changing them and what have you got then? When you love a person wholly you love the good, bad, and the ugly. We are taught young that you can't go into a relationship thinking you can change the other person. You don't have to like everything about them. That's part of life. Even the things that you don't like make them who they are. If you truely love who they are, then you wouldn't change a thing. I think I'm just repeating myself now. You get the point. It was a very good talk. It's been just over 3 months now and every day just gets better.